I'm gonna drop what can help me in this particular case. If your unrequited love stands on different ground you may be foolish to embrace some of the below.
So, dear me, please, until this madness settles somehow:
1. Sleep much.
2. Eat well.
3. Exercise, practice loving your body.
Basically avoid the micro-abuses you usually can handle. You are sick. Acknowledge it and treat your physiology accordingly.
4. Don't text the girl every day like you used to. Let her breathe.
5. Talk to girls, flirt, let your mind engage with other women if possible.
6. Don't fuck your ex. It will only make everything worse.
7. If by some miracle you get alone time with the girl on Feb 29th, kiss her (if she's still single). For any chance you'll soon get together it's really worth to have an anniversary every 4 years.
8. When she's touching other guys and you get jealous DON'T LOOK. If you can't not look go away.
9. Keep being who you want to be around her. Your healthy, joyful, positive self. It's hard but you are doing a surprisingly well job so far given your emotions. Congrats and keep behaving the way you do.
10. Invite her to a trip together, and then another one. If she says 'no' to both don't ask again.
11. Enjoy the ride. Pain? so what? Remember how empty you feel when you have no one to feel for? You are in love and that's already incredible.
12. "If you love something, give it away". Be generous! With compliments, with food, with emotions, to everybody.
13. Don't hand, and preferably don't write at all any more long love letter-things. She's had enough, she knows everything she can know. It's redundant from now on.
14. Don't make moves on other girls if you don't really feel like. Your mind is 110% occupied by her. That's ok. If a new attraction starts taking place you'll see it quite clearly. No need to force anything, would be ugly and lame.
15. You'll eventually be with the girl (yay!). The facts and the odds are already positive and you manage this crush nicer than ever. It's all a matter of time, respect and effortless blossoming of emotions from her side.
16. There's no competition. That's actually what's confusing you like hell. You are the only person in her circle she can feel so appreciated, smart, attractive, warm, entertained and aroused (she doesn't know that yet) with. So what the hell is she waiting for?
16. There's no competition. That's actually what's confusing you like hell. You are the only person in her circle she can feel so appreciated, smart, attractive, warm, entertained and aroused (she doesn't know that yet) with. So what the hell is she waiting for?
17. Calm down know-it-all. 16 is a great proof that you may be missing important insight. Give time, genuine care and see what happens. Keep that optimistic attitude but allow space for reconsideration.
18. It's all SO nice. No "will be's". You are already healthy and strong and loved and keep pacing on the right path, regardless of your love life. Keep nice and be a better man every single day.
19. Read this shit when you feel overwhelmed. It helps a lot.
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